Dramafreeinfl, 52

Pansies need not apply... First and foremost I am a mom of a teenager who doesn't need a "baby daddy". But he is the most important person in my life..
I am slightly obnoxious and can be considered crude but most love me. I am very direct some misconstrue it for being a B*tch but they get over it. I overly care about people and have many wonderful people in my life who you will meet from the get go. I am loyal and honest sometimes to a fault. I tell it like it is but I can also take it, too. I love to learn new things about other cultures and belief systems. I am very open minded to all lifestyles and people. I believe it takes 2 WHOLE people to make a relationship work.
I don't need someone to take care of me I can do that myself, I want you in my life I don't need you in my life...I am not superficial and I don't do drama well. I am looking for someone that is stable, secure and is not needy. I am not a huge sports fan unless its Fight Night I Love UFC & MMA. I am flirtatious but not easy, I am affectionate but not clingy. I don't have a jealous bone in my body and won't deal with someone that does, I am independent but like company, I am confident and self assured. I'm a skinny chick stuck in a fat chicks body. I love to treat my man like ... well MY man. I only have 1 rule...and if you are gutsy enough you will ask me what it is.
I don't like "YES" men...they are boring. I want to get what I want but make me work for it~a little...lol
I am looking for my equal not someone I have to follow behind or having to boost their ego...I like attitude but not an A**hole I am also pretty damn funny.. well witty so you have to like to laugh..I pretty much go with the flow..I love spontaneity, pack up and go on a get away...I have a bad case of wander ----.I won't tolerate racial or social ignorance life it to short to hate.I AM NOT INTERESTED IN JUST A BOOTY CALL..while I am not looking for anything serious right now I am also not a "send me a pic of you" kind of girl...
Thin